Anime Speak

Rob · Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:05 pm Girlfriend

Yup i have one. Am i ashamed? Of course not! Our one month anniversay is tomorrow and I have no Idea of what to write in it, any ideas?

Reaves · Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:06 pm

Flowers. Flowers never go wrong. Or better yet, buy a big cake and put me inside it. I know that works to. But go with flowers, or low fat candy.

Rob · Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:18 pm

man im dislexic (spelling error) I always leave out words. I have already bought pink roses and a card, I'm trying to figure out what to write in it

Reaves · Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:19 pm

Errr, A poem? Something that rhymes?

Xethtine · Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:25 pm

Being a girl myself, I happen to know a bit about what girls like. Flowers and candy are cliche', but the DO work. Teddy bears and jewlery (not a ring unless it's a one year anniv or you plan to get married) also work.

Inside a card or note, girls like something personal. If it's just a random poem that has no meaning to you or her, then it makes her feel like you don't really care. Go for a poem or quote that fits your relationship and emotions.

You could also try to make something up. If she knows that you sincerly tried to create something special for her, then she'll appreciate it all the more.

Well there's my two cents. Happy one month anniversay :)

Rob · Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:33 pm

hehe thanks, but Reaves i do not intend on a poem. I think i know what ill put in it, thanks for all the help guys and gals. :)

phoenix · Fri Oct 26, 2007 11:40 am

i envy you rob for i have never had a girlfriend :(. i am ashamed of not having one but right now i dont have the money i have heard having a girlfriend requires sucks for me

Xethtine · Fri Oct 26, 2007 4:01 pm

Lol, likewise. I've never had a boyfriend. Don't be ashamed. Not having a relationship doesn't mean you're less than anyone who does, it means you just haven't found the right person to have a relationship with yet and that you won't just settle for someone who doesn't make you happy.

Diabeticus · Fri Oct 26, 2007 4:27 pm

agreed, i , like Wes doesnt have a girlfriend, but there is no need to be ashamed, we're young , we have a lot of time to get a girlfriend, which i think is better than just rushing into a relationship because everyone else is in one

Xethtine · Fri Oct 26, 2007 5:29 pm

Yeah, agreed. A lot of my friends are like "OMG, your life's not complete if you don't have a boyfriend" and I just say that I'm not ready. I have my whole life ahead of me. I will not settle for someone I don't like just 'cause I want to "fit in"